Showing any kind of love with your body and not your heart can cause you relentless amounts of heartache and possibly heartbreak.
In my opinion, when you love with your body you create what is commonly termed these days as a ‘situationship’ rather than a ‘relationship’.
It may not have been your intention to start a situationship in the first place but the longer it goes on for and the more intense it gets you may find it very difficult to call time on it.
Situationships are a waste of time and can last months even years. Once emotions are involved you tend to just roll with things the way they are in the hope that things may go to the next level and blossom into a relationship. This may never happen though and by then you’ve wasted valuable time you can never get back.
Don’t let your emotions get the better of you!!
Listen to your mind and not your body. It’s a bit like that R. Kelly song ‘My mind is telling me no but my body is telling me yes’. Sometimes NO is way better than yes!!
Depending on how emotionally involved you get with the person you may even start seeing your situationship as a way to maybe develop a long term relationship with that person yet it never happens. It can be very hard especially when the hope of something more is always there by the way in which they treat you.
Don’t settle for less than you deserve just to have a fraction of someone’s time!!
Know your worth!!